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08.09.2005 03:25
Dawn, Max, and Ally
I miss you more than ever...and you know how nuts things are down here. You were right - this is hell. The sad thing is that there's nothing we can do to save anyone else.
I miss you. I'll see you soon.
as always your heart,
Dawn
07.29.2005 23:12
Dr John Onufrak
Young Jedi Max will soon undergo training, he must have the strength and the willpower to fight on.
Hasta Bro,
John
04.27.2005 01:06
Jedi Max
In honor of Max's Jedi Master Uncle Michael, Max is ready and willing. And he is honored. And ready to learn to confront, overtake, and reverse the evil in this world. Cancer is the big evil enemy.
Let us go forth.
(As told to mom to write, but the words are directly of Jedi Max. Jedi Warrior Max.) And he is not kidding. He means it. Uncle Michael, Jedi Master Uncle Michael. The legend continues.
04.25.2005 05:06
Dr. John Onufrak
John
04.25.2005 00:35
Dawn
It's such a hard time of year...again, I'll do it without you here. Who would have ever dreamed I'd be at the jumping off place for 40 and without you having blazed a path for me to follow?
If I wasn't so sad I'd be really mad at you! You really should be here for this. No - I mean, you REALLY SHOULD BE HERE FOR THIS!
You deserve 40 way more than I. What's that all about?
What's funny, though...everybody says that the "older" I get...the more I look like you (Max, too). You were always the best looking of us...but our smiles are just about identical now, and I have your dimples!!! (Took 40 years...but by God - I've got them!)
I miss you, big brother, and this time of year is especially hard. You on May 8 and then me on the 15th. We've never not celebrated together, well, except since you died. Then Dad the next year. But then, at least we had a funeral to celebrate that weekend for our birthdays...and that was always fun.
I'm going to really, really miss you again. You should be here.
You really should be here. And I'll never forget.
Always your heart,
Dawn
04.24.2005 23:57
Jedi Max
i wish you could be here you are allwas by my side and i am allwas by yours i miss you most of all you are a good man i love you most of all. love max.
04.19.2005 22:24
Dr. John Onufrak
04.19.2005 21:09
Dawn, Max, and Ally
04.13.2005 00:29
Mary Ann
I haven't written in a long time. I have had you on my mind almost daily lately. It is coming up on the 4 year anniversary that you are gone from this physical earth and it would be your 43rd birthday soon. I just turned 44 much to my chagrin. It doesn't seem possible that I met you in Atlanta in 1990 when I was just 29! Good Grief! Time flies but we all still think about you all the time and you will never be forgotten! I can't believe you ever thought that you could be forgotten because almost all of us have indelible nick names given to us by you. I recently found a picture of Mark, Mindy, you and myself at their wedding almost 13 years ago in Connecticut. It seems like just yesterday. Miss you Mikey!
Bella
04.04.2005 21:11
Dawn, Max, and Ally
I'm sorry, I said "waves." What I meant to say was "memories."
We always remember...this time of year is just especially gut-wrenching.
I love you big brother, and miss you beyond understanding.
I promised you that we'd never forget. We have not and will not. Remember you promised that you'd never leave me and the kids. So don't.
Always your heart,
Dawn, Max and Ally
03.14.2005 11:20
Dr. John Onufrak
Had some good shows this weekend. Lot's of news in my life, but you know already. Soon to be where I want!
Sis and nephew all good. Watch over them my friend.
John
03.02.2005 02:32
Dawn, Max, and Ally
I hope you know that I check in often. I don't always write though, because very often, there just are no words.
I don't think about you a million times a day. I think about you just once...it starts in the morning and lasts until I sleep. Every single day holds precious memories and is the anniversary of something special. Being able to look back and remember the things we did, and the time we had together is a gift from God. We really did make memories, didn't we? Remember the "three-hour tour?" I wonder if you ever told anyone how you saved our lives. And did we ever find out if "borrowing" a police car to escape the angry Rastas in Tortola is a "real" crime if you don't get caught?
Sometimes I can look back and smile, and laugh. I thank God to have you for my big brother . I lived adventures with you that most people can't even imagine.
I also look back and cry, and feel pain that most people can't imagine.
This time of year brings its own precious memories and special anniversaries.
As promised, Michael, I'll never forget you.
You are my heart,
Dawn, Max, and Ally
02.23.2005 23:06
Jane Oberwager Gaines
02.16.2005 11:53
Tami Netzband
02.15.2005 00:54
Paul Netzband
I have just found this web site. It is now 2005.
I can only hope that you are now on a great mountaintop sitting in the sunshine, looking down and smiling. We spent many days and nights chasing summits and, in particularly spent many months training and eventually climbing Mount Fairweather in June of 1994 (the 13th team to summit by the Carpe Ridge).
I took many of the pictures that are found on your web site during a time in your life when the wind was brisk and the air cold. We smiled. I saw you through many climbing adventures happily in 1992-1994 and was greatful for every moment that I spent.
My thoughts go out to your family and friends, even at this late date.
Once we were tied together climbing for our lives.
Paul Netzband
02.08.2005 06:39
Dawn, Max, and Ally
It's been a while...not because I've forgotten, but maybe just because I can't forget. Seems wrong that life has gone on. It's not right, and it makes no sense...and I could really use your amazing advice and guidance. It's nuts down here, as I'm sure you know. Mike, everybody is wrong. Time doesn't heal the pain. I can deal with "pain"...this is more like a gut-wrenching-soul-wrenching-emotional torture I endure every waking moment. So many things, Michael. In life and in death, and so amazingly in-my-face recently, YOU'VE GOT MY BACK! I hear you in my heart when you guide me. I see you with Dad in my dreams, and I know you are with me. But Mike, it's just not the same as when you were here.
I miss you more than you'll ever know. You'll never be forgotten, and Mike, don't you ever leave me, Max, and Ally. We love you more than you'll ever know. And we need you.
Always your heart,
Dawn, Max, and Ally
12.28.2004 20:08
Dr. John Onufrak
John
12.04.2004 20:55
Dr John Onufrak
11.03.2004 06:34
Dr. John Onufrak
10.01.2004 04:02
Marty Warbington
It's been a while, and Cory has been growing older, so I thought I'd bring you up to date.
He bought a house this week. That is such a grown up thing to do, but he's become a grown up.
You took him climbing when he was a teenager. The picture of you and him standing together is one of my favorites. You had him stand on a log just so he would look bigger and older. Well, now he looks that way, but you are gone. You enjoyed him then and you guys would have had such a good time together now. You will always be missed and loved.
Marty
09.27.2004 13:19
Dr. John Onufrak
Just thinking about you. This was your favorite time of year!
09.05.2004 14:03
Dr. John Onufrak
Labor Day Weekend. This would be a time for the daks either climbing, camping or shooting. The weather is absolutely perfect. Your memory shall never go unforgotten among the many. Continue to watch over and support those in need my friend.
Semper Fidelis!
John O
08.30.2004 00:02
Mom
I haven't placed a message here for awhile because I couldn't get the website up due to my technology handicap[real surprise,huh}.
Last night at the Emory CHI PHI house was so bittersweet. You really have some great brothers who have not forgotten you and told some great stories about all of the escapades of years gone by. Why weren't you there? Has God told you why? Surely He knew how much we needed you and would misss you, this doesn't make any sense to me. I know we have to accept and go on and we're trying. I know you and Dad and Papa and Uncle Kostie stay with us and truly are our angels, but it isn't the way we always thought it would be.
Well,as you know I lost your class ring(bonehead,bozo)and your fraternity brothers had a special one made(not an easy task) and presented to me at your twentieth reunion. Nana, Dawn and I were there with the most caring, compassionate and accomplished (I might add) of your brothers.
It was a moment in time that will live forever in our hearts. I know you're watching over David and Malcolm (they still give him a hard time), Ray and Edwina, Jeff and Tom, Paul, Scot, and all of them.
I intend to get all of the names right and let each and every one of them know just how much we appreciated their kindness and compassion. They all have such busy lives and I know David spearheaded the effort for your/my ring and no doubt was time consuming, you sure knew what you were doing when you selected your friends. They are the best.
Thanks for all your help with the new company, I can't believe I'm doing it. Oh, a big thanks for sending Joe, no coincidence that he came into my life again and wanted to partner on this company,
never in a million years would I have dreamed this at this time of my life. God does indeed have a plan, after all.
You know my heart, my precious child.
Mom
08.10.2004 22:19
Marty Warbington
I want to thank you for allowing me to know you in your time on earth. A person hears stories about people who they admire and would like to know, but rarely does that happen in life.
So many people wrote about you without even meeting you. You touched their lives in a good way at the worse time of your life.
But, I was one of the lucky ones, as was Cory. We knew you for long enough to see how you handled yourself in all kinds of situations. Now when Cory has a decision to make, he makes it after thinking what your decision would be. What a good gift to leave. Thank you!
We miss you.
Love, Marty and Cory
08.10.2004 20:06
Dawn, Max, and Ally
Just checking in, as usual. I'm sure you know all the changes going on in our lives...you and Dad probably had a little "sit down" with God.
It's been too long since I've seen your gorgeous face (and that amazing dimple), or heard your hypnotic, deep voice, or gotten one of your unbelievable bear hugs.
But I still see you in my dreams, and hear you in my heart, and I can feel your presence a million times a day.
I miss you more than anyone could ever have dreamed.
As always, you are my heart.
Love,
Dawn
07.12.2004 19:25
Dawn, Max, and Ally
Just checking in. You'd be so proud of your Max. He made the "all-star" baseball team, and will be playing baseball with kids a few years older than he is from now on! Get this...we watch the Olympic trials these days, and out of the blue...no prompting whatsoever...he's interested in...yep...the pole vault! Go figure! Ally has decided now, since realizing that she can't be an actual horse when she grows up, that she wants to be a horse rider! She'll be starting her lessons soon (or maybe later...) as soon as it cools off a little, anyway. The rest of us are getting thru. We miss you and Dad so much. Knowing you're up there, somehow, now gives me comfort. You're my angel now. Don't know how I'd do without believing that.
You will always be my heart,
Dawn
06.20.2004 16:36
Dawn, Max, and Ally
I just want everyone to know, as I know you do, that I think about you every day. And just as I promised you, my Michael, I will NEVER forget you.
You are, as you have always been...
My heart,
Dawn
05.24.2004 22:23
Jane Oberwager Gaines
Love, Jane
05.18.2004 23:37
Dawn, Max, and Ally
Last Saturday I became 39. It's really the only thing I've ever done that you didn't conquer and overcome and make easy for me. Mike, it would have been so easy for you. It was my worst nightmare without you. It was the first milestone in my life that you never cleared the path for me. Actually, if spirituality has any hand in this, you just re-directed my life.
I get it, Big Bro. Done. Happy now? Actually I am.
Happy 42nd Michael, from your baby sister. And Max and Ally, your other babies, and they BOTH will never forget you.
I love you Mike. On behalf of a bunch of people who love you but just cannot put it into words,
Your heart, as always,
Dawn
05.14.2004 23:10
Marty & Cory
I've been missing your presence in my life. You were always doing things your way. That made for some interesting times. Once, at a party in the lab at Emory you promised to bring M&M's, which were a tradition not to be broken. But you forgot, so you went down to the vending machines and bought all the M&M bags of candy the machine held. I think every person there got there own bag.
There is a new student in the school who has a voice similar to yours. I hear it once in a while and for just a second I expect to see you turn the corner. It hurts that you're not there, but it also brings a memory of you and that is a great feeling.
Love you and miss you,
Marty
05.10.2004 19:41
dawn
I couldn't even log on here for your birthday. On April 27, I outlived my big brother. There is something very wrong with that. You should be here for all of this. Mike, you turned 42 last Saturday. Mothers Day is always the Sunday after your birthday, and my b'day is the next Saturday. We always met during that week to celebrate. I've missed that the last few years. Mike, OH MY GOSH...I'll be 39 on Saturday!!! You were always so much worthier of that than I. Trust me, Michael...nobody has forgotten. Nobody. I think it just has brought us all to a place of disbelief. You are just not here for any of us at all. Not physically. I know I hear you, and feel your presence, and see you in my kids, and I see you in your friends.
I'd give anything to hear your voice, or to have your big strong hug, or feel those huge, confident hands squeeze my shoulders
You are the real stuff, Mike. Happy Birthday, Big Brother.
I miss you so much. I need you, we all do.
You are the stuff we all wish we were made of.
I love you, dawn
04.20.2004 23:26
Dr. John Onufrak
I can't believe it is 3 years. God has blessed us all here on Earth, and certainly has given heaven a true angel. I miss ya man.
John
04.20.2004 09:16
Brooke Major
03.31.2004 17:17
Dr. John Onufrak
As you probably know, today's yearly checkup went very well...uneventful. Dr's are pleased with their Jedi having overcome the evil disease that afflicted us both. Hemlock still lives! Yessssss! Though gone from this world, you are not forgotten and your legacy shall still live on my friend. I will see to that for sure.
Keep guiding and driving those in need. It is imperative to those whom you've touched. Hasta ,
John
03.31.2004 16:23
Janis Johnson aka Pumpkin
I am not sure that I can do this...but I will try, you know what a sap I am. I think about you every day. Marti and I often pepper our converstions with "mikeisms" and there are a lot of them. You had such a sense of humor, I remember you would have me crying with your impersonations. I feel like I watched you grow up, from Emory (you gave me my last filling, I was numb for a week) to Boston University and everywhere in between (do we really want to remember Rochester). I miss you a lot. I sometimes come to this web site and read the wonderful things that people say about you. You touched our lives in so many ways. I have great memories of our times together. This is the first time I have had the strength to write something of my own. I just cannot believe you are gone and yet, in some ways it is like you are still here. I will carry you with me always. I love you.
Love Always Pumpkin
03.31.2004 01:22
Dawn, Max, and Ally
Had to send a letter in addition to the prayers, just to let you know we still miss you so. As I promised, I'll never forget, and every day of my life will never be the same without you. Max is frighteningly like you more and more every day. It is a real blessing that the same kid who swings light-sabres, and listens to Dr. John O. tell him about the responsibility of a Jedi, still loves his mommy, and only wonders where his Uncle Michael's real light sabre is! Oh, and can he have it when he becomes the Jedi Master?!? And Ally...well she prays to Uncle Michael, Jesus, and Papa all in the same breath. And she wants you to come home to us for Easter, just like Jesus came home to His Father. Wow. Hey Mike, I miss you more than you'll ever know. I thank you for sending me Dr. John to be my big brother here on earth. No one is you, Mike. But you did send me your blessing, and he is my big brother now, through you. And you couldn't have made a better choice. I love you.
your sis
03.16.2004 03:48
Dawn, Max, and Ally
I still will never forget. Your brother Dr. John O. has helped me a million times. He is really a brother, to both of us. Mike, I miss you every day. I would be so much a better person if you were here. And Max and Ally. They really need you, too. They will never forget you, either. Dr. John is great, he talked to Max tonight about being a Jedi. It's cool. Max "gets" that he is speaking for his Uncle Michael, too. You chose a great man to help us get through this. I still can't stand it without you and dad, but here I am. Oh big brother, if I could only wish you home...
03.15.2004 13:12
Dr. John Onufrak
It's soon spring. I'm a year past my carpe diem now and am doing great. I am truly blessed. I along with so many miss your being around. Many a day goes by where there is some memory or situation that arises that reminds me of how we would handle things. Continue as a guardian angel for your family and friends bro, they need you.
Hasta
03.10.2004 03:41
Dawn, Max and Ally
God, Mike. What's going on here without you? What were you thinking when you left me in charge?
Forget you? Big brother. As I approach the age you were when God called you home, (and we are within a month and a half of that day) I can't believe I am just right there.
Know what? I just simply can't go on right now. It's way too close to me being older than my big brother. I will find find the strength to go on somehow. Soon. But this is just wrong. And it's just not fair.
Michael, I just miss you. I just miss my big brother.
I wish you would just come come.
02.16.2004 18:01
Dr. Gregg Russell
I would think the extraordinary tribute that your friends have set up here only confirms what many of us knew already. You really are an extraordinary individual.
I had the privilege of attending high school and college with Mike and really getting a great view from the cheap seats. Mike had a "code" and style that a youngster like myself (I'm being very generous) would look at with amazement and wonder. He just approached things in a unique manner that let you know he had a plan. I used to swear Mike was from Canada by his pronuncitation (am I spelling things correctly?) of certain words. Mike drove an El Camino (of course, it was black) and participated in track as a pole vaulter (how else would one soar above the earth in track). I will leave out some of the details of what happened after a serious accident when he broke his leg, but only Mike could have pulled off the recuperation and extracurriculars in the hospital that he did.
Later in life, I ran into Mike at a bar in Buckhead and had a moment to reflect on life and where each of us was. He actually remembered me which was a treat.
Hope this message finds your spirit well cared for and appreciated. Many of your better friends have weighed in and probably touch this site frequently to say, "hello". It's clear that you won't ever be forgotten.
It was a treat to know you and have stories to tell. Best wishes for your latest journey.
Gregg
02.15.2004 00:36
Dawn, Max, and Ally
02.09.2004 15:07
Jane Oberwager Gaines
01.27.2004 15:01
Jeffrey Rodman Linscott
01.16.2004 23:17
Marty Warbington
It's so cold here in Boston (-7) it reminds me of the ice storm we had in Rochester shortly after moving there. I didn't lose power, but you did for 5 days! I offered you a place to sleep, but you were going to tough it out. On the third day, when everything in your house was totally frozen,you gave in and asked me if my offer still held. You came over and asked if you could shower. I said yes of course, and you disappeared for an hour, trying to warm yourself after 3 days with no heat. I think that might have influnced you when you decided to take to climbing ice. Thought you'd want to know.
Cory sure misses the adventures he had with you!
Me too, Love Marty
01.06.2004 07:09
Dr. John Onufrak
12.28.2003 13:56
Dr. John Onufrak
You are not forgotten this Christmas octave my dear friend. Special prayers were offered at my St. Peter's, for you and family and friends. I hope this year coming, 2004, is most prosperous and Happy and healthy for all those who read and continue to spread the joy and happiness that Micheal would have wanted. He's touched so many people in many ways and has given inspiration and hope for so many. May you enjoy the peace of God's love!
John
12.21.2003 04:12
dawn
Whoever said that "time heals the pain" is a big fat liar. We only learn to live with the pain in the time we are given. Trust me.
Whoever knew that at 6 and 4, Max and Ally could be so much like you. You wanted to be Batman...They think they actually ARE Batman. They practice stealth, and Star Wars is inbred. You would be proud, Uncle Michael. Frankly..it scares me!
You ARE here. I just know it. I see it all day, every day. It makes me miss you so much more all the time.
Just like I promised you, Michael. I think about you every day. My kids DO know their Uncle Michael (oh, and yes, he is a GOD!), and the sun DOES rise and set in you, and oh yeah, just like I said to you THAT day, Mike, my life will never be the same. And it HAS been my honor to be your sister.
I love you.
12.07.2003 21:10
Wendy Thomas
12.06.2003 06:12
Dr. John Onufrak
Thanksgiving was uneventful this year, though the memories of our hunts and hikes led me to deep thought. It's amazing to me how small a world we actually live in, and how circles of paths cross each other in life. Many of us that left the Evil DC went to various states, funny several have ended up here in Ohio. I always mention your name to let others continue the chain of how you inspired many, then and now.
I am a few short months of my Carpe Diem day, a year of turmoil. But I am in 100% remission, and am working steadily on physical condition, health, and peace. Soon, this will be a mere bad dream, and I will have grown more strong than ever, for I am truly a lucky one.
Watch and guide those who need help. Miss you as we all do.
John
11.16.2003 00:43
Christine Charpentier
11.11.2003 19:15
Sped...
What in the world... you see my life now... can you believe all that has happened? I know you are happy for me babe, but I miss you... What would life be like with you here? Very different then now, that is for sure...at least I think! I will always thank you for the love you gave me, courage and faith that you demonstrated and the laughter you still bring to my life...As always, I am sure, there are still many "Sped" moments....
Someday Mike, we will be together again... until then, protect me as I know you do and always will...
Love you,
Sped
10.24.2003 19:21
dawn
I still feel like you can't be gone. I miss your voice, but I can hear you in my heart. I see you in the kids, Max is more like you every day. I meet people, and tell them about you. Everyone says they wish they had known you. They have no idea.
How blessed we are to have had you. I miss you like I never imagined I could. And it still hurts like new every day.
Stay with us all, please be our guide.
I love you and miss you like no one could ever imagine.
Thank you, Chris for keeping this tribute going. It is a huge comfort.
Everyone please keep praying for John.
And please, don't ever forget my Michael.
10.15.2003 09:43
Alisa Krewet
10.14.2003 10:13
Karl Klepfer
We’ll stick-a-pick for ya!
10.03.2003 07:45
Dr. John Onufrak
Just thinking about the fall. Am starting to make a more smooth recovery. Endurance, stamina and strength coming back. This was the time of year of preparation, protocols, packing, climbs, camping, hunting.
I've readied the vehicle, now awaiting a destination. God is with us ! Miss ya man!
John
09.01.2003 20:25
Marty Warbington
It's a comfort to read the words of someone else who cared for Mike and still miss him. Thanks for sharing.
It's the things that trigger a strong memory suddenly, that keep me aware of how much I still miss him. My birthday is in about a week, and on my 40th, when the lab went to a restaurant for a celebration of it, he gave me a ride in his Porsche. My very first time in one and one of the few times he ever drove at lunch time. By that timing I will always remember him on my birthday, forever.
Thank you Mike for that, you made me feel special that day.
09.01.2003 11:58
Karen
John, we all know who is watching over you and interceding on your behalf...the force is with you along with our daily prayers. Blessongs to you.
Thank you for keeping this site Chris. You will never know what it means to us and to people who never met Michael are inspired by his life.
Thanks and God's love to all.Karen
08.16.2003 15:05
Dr. John Onufrak
These are the days in weather and spirit where kindred share experiences. There has been much going on in my life, similar in many ways, but the JEDI light still shines and will not wither. Yesterday, I saw a sight that I know you would have appreciated. Only a few hundred yards from my house, in Ohio, I witnessed not one, or two...but three bucks; two eight points, and a 10 pointer. They were beautiful and stood so majestically as they knew they had no enemies here.
I am 80 days post stem cell transplant, with zero complications. I am very lucky indeed. Each day the force grows stronger, and training will begin once again. There is much to yet explore, and scale....soon the time will come.
You are missed by all my friend,
Hasta....John
05.08.2003 22:32
Marty & Cory
Happy Birthday Dude.
And the force is with you.
Marty
05.08.2003 17:52
Becky
04.11.2003 23:31
Marty Warbington
Cory and I talk about you like we're going to see you any day now. We went to your memorial service in Atlanta and it was good to see you had pictures of when you took Cory camping with you in the mountains of New york. I also saw my name in your thesis where you thanked me for all the help. You always said you were going to do that, and you did.
I still have the feeling you're watching out over me, just like I told you the last time I wrote you.
Just want you to know you're still thought of in Boston and always will be wherever I am.
Marty
03.31.2003 19:23
Dr. John Onufrak
As you know, I am now a warrior for the cause. Fortunately, for health, age, strength, and stamina - qualities we endured and shared, are still my power.
Awaiting first pass news, remember the path of the righteous man........
Hasta
03.15.2003 01:49
Becky
Please watch over, guide, give strength too and be with your fellow comrade John. May the "Jedi Force" that you and John have be with be with John today and everyday...
I send special prayers to you Mike... I know you see what John is going through... May your strength be with him from the heavens above.
I miss you,
Sped
02.23.2003 22:11
becky
Spedro
02.06.2003 21:11
Dr. John Onufrak
I communicate with the Spedster often. She, myself and many others will continue our very fond thoughts and memories. There are some of us though, who will continue in the arts of the Jedi, as these are masterfully employed on a daily routine in some way, shape or form...thought you should know.
Gearing up for continental divide expedition and know you will be present. Miss ya man.
John
01.26.2003 21:00
Mature Aunts
01.12.2003 10:51
Karl Klepfer
Get your Specialized Mt. Bike ready cause we're going riden! You know you're always with us …. all of us!
Cheers Bud!
01.08.2003 14:47
Chris Caropolo
I just wanted to say how I would have enjoyed to meet you. You are an amazing guy. My brother Frankie (26 years old) has been recently diagnosed with Lymphoblastic Lymphoma. He is making the best of it. Fortunately, like you, he also has many friends and family who love him dearly. I spoke with Becky today and she was gracious enough to give me some information, advice and support. You are a lucky man. She loves you very much.
I will pray that you have found peace and I hope you can talk to some of your friends up there and ask them to hold off on my brother. Take care and I hope to see you on the mountain one day.
Chris
12.28.2002 19:43
Heidi Tyrrell
10.23.2002 17:28
dona cardenas
I just wanted to take the opportunity to tell you I still think about your family all the time.
I don't know why your family touched my life they way you have. I still have all the email I received from Michael when he was first diagnosed. I think about you and your family at least once a week. Something always makes me think about you. This time it's the emails. But usually, it's a butterfly or a cyclist or something i see on tv. I am sorry i never had the pleasure of getting to know you in person Michael. I feel like i really missed out. Karen and Dawn, you are always in my thoughts. I never know what to say. I hope you are doing well.
10.05.2002 00:56
Dawn
It means the world to me that so many of your amazing comrades continue to remember and keep your spirit alive, and talk to you, and all of us, through this beautiful website. Every time I read these incredible tributes, I am reminded of what a masterpiece you are, how many lives you touched, and how blessed and honored I am to be your sister.
Our dad, Roy Daniel, died of cancer on May 2, 2002. Just one year and 12 days after Michael.
Their services were held exactly one year to the day apart.
I know Michael reached out his strong, healthy hand and helped our Dad enter into eternity. I know they are both watching over us.
Sometimes the heartbreak is unbearable. I'm not sure sometimes how I make it through the day. Uncle Ron told me that we have to go on living. He said that the greatest way to honor you is to treasure what you treasured most - life. To live as courageously, honorably, aggressively, humbly, curiously, and amazingly as you did. He said that would be the greatest gift of all. To live. Because that is what you wanted to do. I won't be as good as you two, but I'm gonna go "B*##@ out" trying!
Becky and her brother Tim came to Atlanta for a few days in September. It was bittersweet. I took them to Marist. They have all your awards and trophys displayed. You're still a legend there! I also took them by Sheffield Glen - our old place looks great - I wanted to knock on the door of the new owner, but Becky rationalized me out of it! I took them to Emory. We drove around the campus, and - yes - went INTO the Chi Phi house!
Becky wanted me to tell them I was looking for my son, something about me being a Milf? They only have one composite hanging up. Yours. Apparently, that legend lives on as well.
I'm taking exceptional care of the Expedition. I'm proud to own it. It will always be yours, but it's in good hands for now. You can't believe the looks I get in that thing. You'd be proud. I'm such a guy!
I'm going to Africa next September, in your honor. I don't know anyting about Africa, but I'm going.
Come with me, OK?
I love you, my heart. Stay together, you two, and stay with us.
09.21.2002 11:44
Dr. John Onufrak
Starting the gear checks for the fall, started to think again about all the pre-planning we did. Fall rock and ice coming soon, and hunting. Picked up some new gear and toys to make excursions easier. New vehicle is in planning, practice booming. I wish you were still here man. Will send INTREP soon.
Hasta,
John
05.10.2002 06:40
Dr. John Onufrak
Climb on !
05.08.2002 10:17
Becky
Love, Becky
04.26.2002 08:11
Dr. John Onufrak
I have inspired others to become SCUBA certified, so we too can go on the missions we once did. While leafing through my pictures that day, I came across an Evil Dental Center pamphlet, in it were co stars Mike and John. Both of us in our laboratories, and an individual photo of Mike working on a Tigress at the zoo, she required a root canal. Isn't it amazing what skills GOD has given individuals, in helping others, and in this case his creatures. Mike was definitely gifted, he gave his all for fellow man and beast. Mike and I shared stories of zoo adventures, for in each city we've lived, we've had a zoo connection. I have been a Zoo Docent for the past 2 years, it is wonderful.
There is always something new, some reminder of Mike almost every day that passes. Whether it be my gear wall of climbing equipment, an eagle or hawk soaring high ( " man I wish Mike could see this" - and I'm sure he does), or planning a dive, one just has to wonder.
I lost a great friend here on earth, but am happy he lives with our Lord, I am confident we will meet again.
I had the proud honor of meeting your girlfriend Mike, SPED as some say. She is a wonderful person. We shared memories and stories for a long time. I was even able to witness Sped movements, but that was ok. Kindness and the true loving of Mike, were our subject. We all miss you bud.
I am proud to have known you as a friend and colleague.
De Opresso Liber
John
04.20.2002 22:47
Chris Williams
A year has passed since our good friend Mike departed on his journey, and like a cairn in time, I paused today to mark my course. Looking back I can say without doubt that the days Mike and I spent, chewing dirt, rock & snow together, were some of the most outstanding in memory. As for the future, there is a kind of release that comes from those who go through an ordeal and who know, having survived it, that they are equal to all life’s occasions. I will tell these stories for the rest of my life.
I would also like to express my gratitude to all who contributed to this web site with pictures and kind words and hope that it has brought comfort to those who visited. There are no plans to remove it from the web, but if anyone would like a copy of the site on a CD, please drop me a note and I’ll gladly send you one.
Finally, I would like to thank my friend Karl Klepfer for inspiring me to take on this project.
Safe Travels and Peace to All,
Chris
!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
A true friend unbosoms freely, advises justly, assists readily, adventures boldly, takes all patiently, defends courageously, and continues a friend unchangeably.
- William Penn
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04.16.2002 00:32
Sped
Spring is here, flowers are blooming, birds are singing and the days are getting longer... I can not believe a year has already gone by without you. I was reading my journal entry from April 14, 2001 last year and would like to share what I wrote. I can not believe this was just 6 days before you went to heaven...
"Thank you dear Lord for another great day of moving towards peace and acceptance that we simply have only one day, and another awesome day that I am with the man that I so dearly love. Mike had a massage from Dorothee today, we then went over to the Papke's and got in the hot tub. I dropped Buck off to stay with Jake. MD and I then went to Barnes and Nobel. I read "where the side walk ends" and Mike read climbing magazines. We sat by each other and listened to a man in the cafe sing and play the guitar - it felt so normal. The singer played the song, "you are my sunshine" and Mike sang it to me. The same song he sang when we were hanging out in the hospital room at Evergreen waiting for Dr. Mathey to come and tell us the final diagnosis when Mike first learned he had cancer. We both laughed out loud tonight. MD laughed watching Buck and Jake play while we were in the hot tub. Aside from praying with Mike tonight at bedtime, seeing his awesome smile was the best part of my day."
Mike, I am so blessed to have been part of your life and to know that you are watching over me like you told me you would. I thank you for all of our talks and prayers. They have got me through this past year.
I have enjoyed meeting your fellow comrades this past year and learning so many things about you. I am very lucky Mike. You know, the one thing I miss the most Mike is laughing with you. In the meantime, I know you are laughing with me because you get to see all Sped moves... That is one way I feel you with me, when I laugh at myself and know that you are too!!
I miss you babe,
Love, Sped
03.02.2002 17:13
Dr. John Onufrak
Also, along the trek, along a windblown sunny NE face of another mountain, we find 3 unmarked stone graves, like that of old west. Interesting.
Going back for more soon.
Hasta
01.18.2002 21:31
Dr. John Onufrak
Soon I am off to a new location and a new adventure, more rock and ice. I wish we could climb once again, man the fun we had. I'm going to do the fang again for fun, make a tribute to ya buddy, then off to some 14ers, looking forward. May the Eagle fly and watch over us all.
One day I hope we have the answers to life's enigma. It seems so unfair sometimes. I thank God for what he has given me, I am only starting, and life is awesome, I wish you were around to see. Practice is flourishing, life is good, so much to do, so much to experience....no regrets...he who hesitates is lost right?
Had some awesome trials of "DENIAL" - a game we played well. Now looking for a new attack craft to use.
I hope your family is well buddy, will write again soon.
Hemlock
09.27.2001 06:03
Karl Klepfer
I’ve been asked by a local outdoors shop to put a slide show on for them. I said OK. This show entitled “PERU, an Alpinist's View” was Mike's first Peruvian experience. The show will be marketed throughout the mid-west (St. Louis, MO).
This show will be dedicated to the Sprit of Mike and we will have the link to Mike’s Memorial Web Page posted in all Marketing material.
If you would like to see the slide show descriptive, please email me for a copy @ klepk@swbell.net and I will make every attempt to get it to you.
Your Friend!
Karl Klepfer
09.26.2001 21:28
Dr. John Onufrak
There isn't a day that goes by that I don't check this page, trying to strike the keyboard however is a tough task. I just wander off and reminisce ........
I know we will all remember what happened on 11 September 2001, where we were, what we were doing, etc. I will always remember as it was my home town struck, and for me, as I'm sure Mike would agree, doing what was done gives us all a vitamin pill to want to strike back and see justice done.
Anyway, I will also remember what I was doing..I was diving off the coast of Florida, actually near McGill AFB. Before the dive I thought of Mike and of his last mission to deliver him to sea, while diving I thought of Mike because I just acquired and dove the latest in NAVY SEAL equipment - YES!!! - which I knew he could appreciate. I also thought about those times we buddied up and dove in various places, and wished he were along side once again doing another fun thing. When I came aboard the dive boat, I was changing my gear and tanks for the next dive when the captain asked us all to come up front as he had something important to tell us. Another climbing buddy of mine, Andy, and I looked at each other and had a feeling of suspect and question. I thought that someone on board was sick, hurt, saw a shark or another shark attack had occurred near our area, as we were in shark country. When he spoke those words, our WTC in NYC, and Pentagon had been attacked, a feeling of disgust came over us all, sheer horror and sorrow for those involved.
I immediately thought of Mike, how we would have been discussing the situation and making plans to help in any way. I got certified a while back in forensic odontology, and search and rescue just as Mike had. We had skills others needed, but flights were cancelled. So I adapted, improvised and overcame the situation, rented a car, and drove on up......
I just wanted to let you know I miss ya buddy.
John
09.15.2001 20:52
Tim Goad
About this time last week,
I went on a drive;
Talked with my sister Becky,
and we both cried.
Went to the San Juans
to take in the view,
And with heavy hearts
we talked a lot about you.
To say she misses you
would not say enough;
She cries every night and
since you died it's been rough.
Now she has me, Lyuda
Caine and Buck,
To soothe her pain and
see that she doesn't get stuck.
Memories of you and her
fill her thoughts every day,
So I wrote this poem,
to say what she can't say.
She loved you with all of
her heart, all of her soul;
Now she's left to wonder
if she can ever again be whole.
I thank you for inspiring
her and championing God's grace,
For because of your spirit
the world is truly a better place.
The view from where you're
at must be great,
But don't ever forget how a thought
of you makes her elate.
You won't be forgotten,
whether you're near or far;
And she will always love you Mike,
for you were her brightest star.
09.12.2001 22:31
dawn
09.07.2001 10:53
Adam Dawson
He was a fleeting friend who I climbed with 3 or 4 times. He was a mentor, not only in the hills, but in life. I admired him for his rock solid stability.
I belayed him up 100 foot Angel Falls once, and when he got to the top, he had to rappel down and pull his own pro becuase I didn't feel comfortable climbing ... he told me at that time that I had to feel comfortable in whatever I did and it was totally acceptable. Not a word was said about it after that. Rock solid stability.
He was the only guy I new who could climb 5.10 in his double boots wearing a 25 pound pack.
Seven years ago, myself, my wife Paula and Roman left for the Grand Teton. We were sceptical about the ascent, but figured we'd go and try anyway. Mike was the only person who told us "You will climb it, I have confidence." We never did climb it that time, but just last week, Paula and I went back and did summit. I thought about Mike a lot on that trip because of what he initially said to us, ... not knowing what happened to him.
Fleeting friend, mentor ... I like to be outside because I can hear God. I will also now listen for you. The belay is on Mike ... climb on ...
08.26.2001 22:58
CDaniel
Chris
08.16.2001 23:56
Mary Ann
08.10.2001 01:35
Becky
My world is a better place because of you
The precious memories of singing "our song" to each other.
I miss and love you Mike but I know your spirt lives within all of us who love you and that you loved in so many different and touching ways. You are very special and so dearly missed by many.
Sweet Dreams, Sped
08.10.2001 01:30
Becky
It was a beautiful day here in Seattle, one I would have loved to spent with you. Going on an unplanned adventure somewhere, ending up nowhere but always having fun. We did get lost a lot, at least by my directions! Today I flew up to the San Juan Islands. I have been doing a lot of flying the past few months. It is immaculate, Mnt. Rainier, the Cascades, the Olympics, Mnt. Baker and a pod of killer whales that Long flew down to a hundred feet elevation so I could watch. I feel so surrounded by you and feel your presence when I am flying. It is so peaceful, so beautiful and so free and I always see a rainbow. I can only imagine what your view is like. You can watch a beautiful sunset every night or a beautiful sunrise every morning. Sometimes, I wonder where you are watching them- what is the time zone in heaven? (Sped question)
Having you in my life was a miracle and a blessing that I will forever be greatful for. I was with you when you took your last breath and felt your heart slowly come to a stop- the last person you touched, you kissed and said that you love. I felt such amazing peace in the room holding you in my lap while Jimmy ran downstairs to get your family. For the first time in months you were at peace. It is such a blessing to know that you knew you were going to heaven and you were "excited" to see your Papa as you told me. Words will never captivate my love and admiration for you, my hero.
I miss our nightly prayers together and writing back and forth in our journal. The one thing I am most grateful for is being around someone as reverent as you. Mike you never prayed for yourself only for others and always gave thanks first. Your relentless faith was inspiring to watch and feel. In the face of extream adversity you held yourself so high and always took the time to ask others how they were doing. I have relished meeting the people who knew you. Your co-workers at "the snake" had many funny stories to tell and still have your poster of Dr. Evil above your "chair." Hearing the many climbing adventures at the Eugene Mountain Rescue party was a lot of fun too.
Last month I flew to Port Townsend- Long and I met Jimmy and Brandon at Paine Field and they then followed us over. Jimmy in his plane with Brandon and Long and I in the T-28 military plane. Long and I were there first and I was so excited to watch Jimmy do one of his first landings. I was standing out by the runway and spotted him with binoculars and watched them fly in. From as far as I could see, until they made the approach for landing a bald eagle was escorting them in. Upon their safe arrival, as if summoned by you, the eagle broke off on its own missing man formation into the heavens and I just knew...
For all those times you stood by me
For all the truth that you made me see
For all the joy you brought to my life
For every wrong that you made right
For every dream you made come true
For all the love I found in you
I'll be forever greatful baby
You're the one who held me up
Never let me fall
You're the one who saw me through
through it all
You were my strength when I was weak
You were my voice when I couldn't speak
You were my eyes when I couldn't see
You saw the the best there was in me
Lifted me up when I could not reach
You gave me faith 'coz you believed
I'm everything I am
Because you loved me
You gave me wings and made me fly
You touched my hand
I could touch the sky
I lost my faith you gave it back to me
You said no star was out of reach
You stood by me and I stood tall
I had your love I had it all
I'm greatful for each day you gave me
Maybe I don't know that much
But I know this much is true
I was blessed because I was loved
by you
You were always there for me
The tender wind that carried me
Light in the dark shining your love into my life
You've been my inspiration
Through the lies you were the truth
My world is a bette
08.10.2001 00:41
Buck
08.09.2001 19:28
KAREN BEROS
WE LET YOU GO INTO THE SEA, ONLY ANOTHER MOUTAIN FOR YOU IT WOULD BE. YOU WERE QUITE A SPECIAL PERSON I FEEL UNLUCKY IN A WAY I DIDNT GET TO MEET YOU IN LIFE, BUT IN ANOTHER WAY, ONLY THE GOOD DIE YOUNG, THATS WHAT THEY SAY, I STILL FEEL A LITTLE CHEATED, BUT AT LEAST YOU'LL BE FISHIN WITH ME EVERYDAY (HA HA)
CLIMBING MOUNTAINS, HEALING CHILDREN, DOING EVERYTHING THAT YOUR LIFE WOULD ALLOW, HOW YOU DID IT, ITS